Posted: August 21st, 2009 | Author: Leora Schachter | Filed under: Home, Time Management | Tags: laundries, laundromat, laundry, laundry bag, laundry bags, laundry hamper | No Comments »
Laundry. I know this topic isn’t sexy or exciting. This is not about saving money but saving time because of exactly that, laundry is neither sexy nor exciting. For the last 10 years I have lived in old pre-war apartments in NYC that do not have washers and dryers in the buildings. Many of my friends ask, HOW can you live without a washer and dryer? Easily, is my response.
First, you learn to let go of the control over this part of your life, you learn to trust someone else (and pity them) to wash your smelly gym clothes. And then you do a basic cost-benefit analysis (Thank you, NYU Stern School of Business) that shows you that $.85 per pound, less than $10 – $15 per week (depending on your family size), is well worth it. (Here is where I will insert a disclaimer – kids are a game changer, where laundry can be almost a daily habit, and I can’t provide much guidance to those of you with kids!)
You must value these benefits: You don’t have to search around in pockets, purses and couches for quarters, and then spend these quarters for the machines, detergent and fabric softener. You also don’t have to hang out in a laundromat or laundry room for hours, worry if someone else is going to take your stuff out of the machine, or remember not to forget your stuff in the dryer causing your shirts and shorts to get wrinkly, and, most important, NO FOLDING!
The last tip I ever read in a Real Simple magazine recommended that you hire a cleaning person so that you can reduce stress, and I thought to myself, they just don’t get it – it’s stressful for some people just because they know they can’t afford to hire a cleaning person to reduce stress. I do get it, and the extra $5 – $10 it costs to get your laundry done will only provide you happiness and time to run your other errands, spend time with your family and friends, or write a blog post.
Here are my recommendations for having a successful laundry drop-off experience:
- Pick a laundromat that does drop-off/pick-up ONLY. You don’t want other people in the laundromat messing with machines and potentially taking your stuff.
- Round up the bill to include a tip. A tip is always appreciated and since the bill will be small, it’s okay if the tip is small, too. The tip will always pay-off in times of emergency when you need your stuff cleaned the same day, or you forgot your wallet or your receipt, or just because these men and women deserve it after cleaning your stinky stuff.
- Use a laundry bag that is recognizable. Makes life easy for you and the launderers at pick up if you can point out your bag. And if, like me, you sometimes forget your receipt, again, it makes life easier for everyone.
- Own more than one week’s worth of underwear. This holds true for do-it-yourselfers, and drop-offers, sometimes you just don’t feel like doing your laundry or taking it to the laundromat.
So release those laundry bag strings, and leave the laundry to someone else.
Posted: July 26th, 2009 | Author: Kimberly McCaffery | Filed under: Dining, Home | Tags: cooking with fresh produce, gardening, herb garden, organic gardens, vegetable garden, victory garden | No Comments »
“To forget how to dig the earth and to tend the soil is to forget ourselves.” – Mohandas K. Gandhi
For mother’s day, my husband and son built a small garden for me. I’d seen videos like this one, about depression-era victory gardens and I wanted one of my own.
So Mike and Aidan built a small garden bed and I planted rosemary, thyme, basil, parsley, broccoli, swiss chard, lettuce, yellow squash, zuccinni, cucumbers, eggplant, and pumpkin. Yep, all that in a 5′ x 6′ plot. And yep, I don’t know what I’m doing.
In spite of my lack of skills, the garden grew beautifully.
Kim's Victory Garden
Pumpkin seeds
I’ve got three good reasons to be proud of my garden. First, the garden is economical. A packet of seeds costs about $2.50 and and I get about $10.00 worth of produce out of each packet.
Second, the garden is good for the planet. No fossil fuels were used to harvest, ship, or sell this produce. I simply walk out my back door with my kitchen scissors and “snip,” I’ve got veggies for dinner.
But the biggest bonus is the sheer pleasure of growing my own food. I had no idea it would be so much fun. The feeling of accomplishment when I harvested the garden’s first yellow squash defies description. I stir-fried it with garlic, butter, basil, and thyme and served it with angel hair pasta. Yum.
So, if you’ve got a backyard, plant a veggie garden. If you live in an apartment, put a pot of basil on your sunniest windowsill. It will be worth it. Trust me.
Basil
Yellow Squash
Red Leaf Lettuce (left), Basil (lower left), Broccoli (right), Eggplant (upper middle)
Cucumber
Posted: July 16th, 2009 | Author: Kimberly McCaffery | Filed under: Home, Philosophy | No Comments »
image by Rusty O.P.
image by Joe-ks
If you’ve ever fixed anything yourself, you are familiar with the unique thrill–the feeling of pure elation that washes over you when you outsmart the forces of entropy. Those of us who know that feeling will understand the heroic (and hilarious) beauty of this website:
thereifixedit.com
Posted: June 25th, 2009 | Author: guest | Filed under: Home, Money, Philosophy | Tags: freecycle, frugal living, frugal tips, recycle | No Comments »
By Carolyn Lengel
I grew up frugal—or, as friends put it, “cheap”; my family had the whole reduce-reuse-recycle thing down, or at least the reduce and reuse part (municipal recycling didn’t exist yet where I lived). We grew vegetables, drew on the backs of papers my dad brought home from work, and wore sweaters indoors all winter. And we kept things, even if we didn’t need them anymore, because they were “perfectly good.”
I’m glad for some of the things my parents kept and handed down to my family, like wooden trucks and kid-sized rocking chairs—but these days I’m amazed at how suddenly all the perfectly good things can stop being useful and start being clutter. The lavender and hot-pink bicycle with training wheels was great when my daughter was four, but she’ll never ride it again. The local consignment shop where I used to unload baby items lost its lease years ago. There’s the dump, of course, but how could I stand to throw out all these perfectly good things?
So how to connect my unwanted but still eminently usable stuff with people who would snap it up? I signed up for Freecycle. Local online groups exist all over the country for the sole purpose of connecting one person’s trash with another person who sees it as treasure. Once you join your local Freecycling group, it’s a simple matter to post messages (“Offer: little girl’s bicycle”) and tell respondents where to pick items up. The recipient gets something for nothing; I get rid of things without having to throw them away. And even more satisfying than the extra space in my basement is knowing that somebody else’s little girl is learning to ride that perfectly good bike.
Freecyclers join to get free stuff, too, and sometimes I’m surprised by what’s on offer—just this week, in addition to the ubiquitous baby clothes and (surprisingly) televisions, I saw a pasta machine, a sailboat motor, and a 50-year-old metronome kit still in its unopened box. I try to resist; after all, I’m in it for the joy of unburdening. But every now and then I’ll see an item that makes my frugal heart skip a beat. Tomato seedlings! Extra paint! All the zucchini you can pick! And hey, couldn’t I find some use for that bag of switchplates? After all, they’re still perfectly good.
Posted: June 12th, 2009 | Author: Kimberly McCaffery | Filed under: Home, Parenting, Time Management | Tags: frugal family, frugal living, frugal living tips, give up tv, no cable tv, television-free | No Comments »
When I ditched TV ten years ago, it wasn’t for moral reasons. It wasn’t because I was worried that TV was rotting my brain, and it wasn’t because I couldn’t afford the cable bills. It was, purely and simply, a time-management decision. I never would have gotten through grad school if I had continued wasting spending 3 or 4 hours a day in front of the tube. But it took me awhile to pull the plug because I honestly believed that I loved TV. As a latchkey kid, I’d grown up with television, logging 25+ hours a week. The television was a pseudo parent and friend. Even after ten years of living television-free, I still can’t ignore it. If a TV is turned on anywhere near me, I am helplessly drawn to it.
So, when I canceled our cable account, I braced myself for a long painful withdrawl process. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted: May 21st, 2009 | Author: guest | Filed under: Fitness, Home | Tags: bicycle, cycling, green transportation, joys of cycling | No Comments »
Laura's bike
By Laura King
One of the deal-sweeteners of our recent move from the city to the suburbs, in my husband’s view, was getting our car back, which had been on loan to family. And, although my partiality to car-free living has been lifelong–when I was 8, I told a friend I would never trade my bike for a car (she responded, “The air you breathe will be my exhaust!”)–I have to admit, having a car makes some things much, much easier. Weekend trips are no longer tainted by auto rental hassles, and our days of lugging heavy items through the subway are behind us.
That said, I find that most of my everyday errands can be more pleasurably conducted on two wheels rather than four. When we became suburbanites, I invested in a pair of saddlebags
(and, importantly, a comfortable seat
) for my bike. The saddlebags are roomy enough to hold two big canvas sacks of foodstuffs, plus my purse, bike lock, and whatever else I’m carrying–letters for the post office, or books to drop off at the library, for example. With a little forethought, I can plan a smooth multi-errand trip. (Grocery shopping usually comes last; I don’t like leaving my groceries, and full saddlebags make locking up more cumbersome.)
Every time I swing a leg up onto my bike and get rolling, I’m reminded of the long list of benefits of this let-your-hair-down mode of travel. It makes the world feel more real–no surprise, given that in swapping car for bike, you’ve stripped a ton of steel and glass separating you from the road down to about thirty svelte pounds. The air, the birds–and yes, that gnarly pothole–are all on offer for you to experience in their full glory. Plus, it’s mood-enhancing, wiping the fog off your brain and waking you up; even the bumps are enlivening. Add a maneuver around an obstacle and a greeting to a pedestrian, and you’re feeling positively competent and neighborly. It’s good exercise, but not especially strenuous (and any work you do pumping up hills is always rewarded with effortless speed on the other side). And, it’s free, or almost. Magically, its costs are also benefits: stronger muscles and a kindled appetite to fill with something delicious. To me, it seems a frugal no-brainer.
Posted: May 19th, 2009 | Author: Kimberly McCaffery | Filed under: Home, Parenting | Tags: grass, growing grass, kids mowing the lawn, lawn, lawn care, lawn mowers, rotary mowers, Scotts mowers | 1 Comment »
The grass may be greener on the other side of the fence but you still have to mow it. – Proverb
When I moved into my house last August, the yard was mostly dirt, weeds and moss. At the time I was so overwhelmed by the work of owning an old house, that I thought, “good” moss and dirt are low maintenance. I’ll worry about it next spring.
When next spring came, I bought a big bag of grass seed, tossed it on the barren ground, sprayed it with water and hoped for the best. I was pretty sure nothing would grow. Somewhere I got the idea that grass was really really hard to cultivate. But, amazingly, it grew. And grew and grew. Now we needed a lawnmower.
This may not seem like a big deal to those of you who have been mowing since high school, but owning a lawnmower is a jarring rite of passage for former apartment dwellers. For my entire adult life I’ve avoided owning the fleet of lawn care machinery my suburban parents did battle with. Lawn mowing always seemed like an unpleasant, loud, polluting, dangerous chore, and the tool one used for it (the lawnmower) was an expensive, cumbersome piece of equipment that wouldn’t fit in our extremely narrow one-car garage. Moreover, I dreaded the effect it would have on my five year old. He can’t keep away from anything noisy and mechanical, so I was sure I’d be yelling myself horse warning him away from the deadly, spinning blades.
Enter the old-fashioned rotary mower. The Scotts push reel mower
we bought was a hundred dollars cheaper then the least-expensive gas-powered or electric mower and it fit in our tiny garage! We brought it home from the hardware store and my husband assembled it in under ten minutes. It was whisper-quiet and it cut the grass beautifully, but there was an even bigger benefit that I hadn’t anticipated. My son wanted to help, and it seemed safe enough to let him. Supervised by my husband, he pushed the mower and called out, “This is so fun, mom! I want to do this every weekend.”
Posted: March 7th, 2009 | Author: Kimberly McCaffery | Filed under: Home | Tags: benefits of a fireplace insert, entertaining, entertaining at home, family time, fireplace, happiness, hearth, meditation, staying at home | No Comments »
When the price of oil hit $4.67 this summer, my husband and I had a cast-iron, non-catalytic insert installed in our fireplace. We calculated that if we burned a fire every night, the insert would pay for itself in a year or two. Then the price of oil dropped, and dropped, and dropped. Suddenly the fireplace insert didn’t make as much economic sense, but it had some unexpected benefits. It made us love stay-at-home evenings; it made our family time even more magical, and it made entertaining at home seem luxurious.
If you have a fireplace, I encourage you to rediscover it. Light a fire and experience these “priceless” benefits for yourself.
Alone time by the fire becomes time to recharge. Read a book, update your blog, or take a nap. The fire adds a bonus “relaxation factor” to everything. Staring into the flames can be a rejuvenating meditation.
Family time goes from routine to magical. A game of “go fish” or “trivial pursuit” played next to the fire is suddenly an event. A bowl of popcorn, and a favorite movie by the firelight make the home box office a hundred times more satisfying than the theatre.
Entertaining next to a crackling fire adds a feeling of luxury and old-world charm that makes guests feel pampered. Keep a robust fire burning in the hearth and watch how the attitude of your get-together changes from “we can’t afford to go out” to “why would we even want to go out?”
So if your budget demands that you spend more time at home, rediscover your fireplace. It will transform your home into a luxurious, relaxing, magical place to spend an evening.